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They discuss the importance of friends as a support system—all the time, but especially in quarantine. The Friends: Amina Akhtar, 26, a digital producer and podcast host for a nonprofit, who lives in Washington, D. Lincoln Mondy, 25, a project director for a reproductive-health nonprofit, who lives in Washington, D.
This interview has been edited for length and clarity. Julie Beck: Right now, how far apart from each other are you? Lincoln Mondy: Oh my God. Probably, Hot looking sex Leesville would say, like 20 feet?
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Lincoln: We actually looked for apartments. My balcony is off of my room. Amina: My balcony is off of my living room.
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Lincoln definitely has a better-crafted balcony. But this whole [quarantine] situation has motivated me to order my own little patio set. Lincoln: This whole situation has forced me to bring in all of my patio furniture and Torino mature sex it into a workspace. Lincoln: Her mom sat her down at the table with me. It was the first day of freshman Gulfport hottest women at George Washington University here in D.
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I just sat at a table, and then all of a sudden this very, very cute woman—very mom vibes—came over and pulled up a chair. Honestly, the rest was history.
I immediately felt like I could be myself around.
Beck: What were your first impressions of each other? He has a very warm Texas soul.
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Lincoln: Amina was so bubbly, silly, and funny, but she also had these wild experiences and stories. I was really nervous about fitting in. I met a lot of people at GW who were pretentious. I went to an international high school. I really took the chance in college to distance myself from that whole world and focus on crafting good relationships with people from backgrounds different than.
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How did you two stay close throughout college and up to now? What kept you together?
Amina: I went through a lot of mental-health struggles in college. Lincoln was always there, and very intuitive about my sadness.
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That was definitely the glue that stuck us. Lincoln: D. So the fact that she was really open with me aled to me that she valued our friendship. When either of us were in a funk or in a deep depression, giving each other the opportunity to be genuine really, really helped.
Amina: Absolutely. Amina: The seasonal depression hits me. I have been known to just come by with a meal and tell him to stop working, and watch him eat until he finishes. Beck: I know you moved in together briefly after college. How did that go? Lincoln: We moved in together for a year, and I feel like that really taught us a lot about each Married guy looking for first dick. We had to manage a lot of things, like rent, utilities, and furniture.
Amina: Living together did have its challenges. I am a bit messy. I should probably go do those dishes.
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I think that one year taught us that we needed a couple boundaries. When we moved, we made the conscious decision to live separately, so we can hole up on our own but still be very close to each.
Beck: So it ended up that the right distance was just one apartment away. Lincoln: Yes. But we are moving back in with each other after all, supposedly in July. Beck: Oh really? Beck: How do you feel about moving in together again? Do you think things will be different this time?
Amina: Lincoln has spent Thanksgiving with my family for the Chesapeake Virginia male slave for lesbians to use five or six years. But when I finally got to meet all of his nieces and nephews this past December, it was like I already knew them, because he talked about them so. Amina: My family is Muslim, and my parents were a bit uncomfortable about me living with a member of the opposite sex.
But I think my parents really learn and grow with us. Beck: What was it like living next door to each other pre-pandemic, and how have things changed? Lincoln: My love languages are physical touch and quality Real adult dating Deposit New York, so my crops are dying over.
You Discreet Horny Dating looking for a new lesbian bff probably call him. Beck: Has living through this moment in history changed how you think about relationships, friendships in particular? Joy Imani Bullock Amina: Lincoln comes from Best friend love of my life neighbor very Christian family, I come from a Muslim family, and at first when we got really close, it was kind of like, Oh, a boy and a girl.
Are they in love? Are they dating? When I am dating, I feel so secure because I [already] have this guy named Lincoln who I can talk to about. Lincoln: When I started getting serious with my partner, we had to have a sit-down talk because I think Amina might have been worried about how that would affect our relationship.
Amina: Yeah. Because we were always going to be single together forever, until something happened. And his boyfriend was the thing that happened.
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But he did such a good job balancing time. Beck: Do you guys have balcony plans for later today? Lincoln: Well, we already had our morning coffee.
Amina: We are going to have a drink this evening on the balcony. Lincoln: We have many a drink on the balcony. If you or someone you know should be featured on The Friendship Files, get in touch at friendshipfiles theatlantic.
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